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Originally Posted by jjgold
Well it seems to me then to stay away from marriage and your sex life is fine.
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Wrong. Marriage doesn't put an end to your sex life, unless your sex life was boring to begin with and she was just trying to catch you for some personal gain.
Kids don't put an end to your sex life either. They add a new responsibility to both parents and time management should be used accordingly and agreed upon.
The only reason you have so much sex at the beginning of a relationship is mostly because you were single for a while before meeting her or your sex life was dull or non-existent. It is not because you are living a fantasy. Fantasies disappear once you experience them. Which means that if she was just a fantasy, you'd move on after a little while.
Your sex life goes down the drain for lack of affinity. And affinity decreases every time a problem has been ignored or mishandled. You have sex with her because you love her (or like her). When affinity goes down, you're not making love anymore, you're just releasing sexual tension.
Handle your life with time management. Society, family, work and your own self are all dynamics you must commit to. Abuse one, neglect another, and find yourself wondering where have all the fun times gone.
Now the most important question remains: why the h*** am I addressing this question in a gambling-related forum? Oh yes! For personal justification
Max